Learn from me, young Padawan.
You have to give to get.
Stop asking for favors and sliding into people’s DM‘s for an introduction or to pitch your kid for a job. Relationships are not transactional and it is no one else’s responsibility to get you where you’re going.
Invest in your network, show up, send the handwritten note, go to events, grab coffee - it’ll pay off.
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#networking #personalbranding #bigdealenergy #kimbode
AI is not a replacement for Actual Intelligence. Stop forcing it down everyone’s throat. We are replacing independent thought with the convenience of Claude.
Stop the AI videos, AI songs, AI headshots, AI writing. In the age of fake, fabricated, and false, be authentic. The world needs more of you, not ChatGPT.
#bigdealenergy #personalbranding
Hey Bode, what’d you do this weekend?
Oh you know, read a book on Vietnam, watched a documentary on Vietnam, listened to a Spotify playlist on Vietnam…very relaxing and lighthearted stuff.
My brain is so weird.
When you won’t do it, she does.
She holds space in her head, her task list, and her life to follow up, pick up, remind, and eventually do, because you don’t see all the emotional labor, and frankly, you’ve never had to.
Society enabled you, your mom enabled you, and for a long time, we did too.
We are done. Welcome to perimenopause, it’s gonna be one hell of a wake-up for you.
#perimenopause #menopause #graydivorce #emotionallabor
Drink red wine with ice, say no, drop the f bomb, speak up, rescue 9 dogs, and most of all…be unapologetically you. That’s your Big Deal Energy™️.
#You will make decisions, and then you will make those decisions “right.”
Indecision keeps you paralyzed, failure is part of the process, and you need to treat every outcome as a learning opportunity. Life and business require constant iteration, and the best you can do is keep moving forward.
No one has it all figured out, but not deciding means not growing.